On the doctrine of hell and of a loving God, is an eternity in hell considered to be punishment or the result of a fate requested by a sinner of a loving God?
Just as ladies' magazines advise to stay a night in your own guestroom to experience what your guests would experience, so you should visit your own church, seeing it as a first-time visitor would.
There's a reason why people say, "It's Greek to me," when they don't understand something, so don't impose too much Greek language on your listeners when you're in the pulpit.